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Establishing a sense of routine and normalcy is the key to making the first day of child care relatively painless. Getting the child excited while

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treating it like it is just another day will work wonders.

Before the first day, get your child acquainted both mentally and physically. Talk about the activities that he will do, and if possible, schedule a visit to the center. Introduce your child to the teacher, and have fun picking out crayons and glitter glue with him. Above all, avoid showing any fear on your part.

The night before the first day, pick out a special outfit for him to wear, and make sure his supplies are ready. Assuage any fears your child may have, and make sure he gets a good night’s sleep. Pack a special lunch with a handwritten note on the napkin (“Hi honey! I love you!”).

The next morning, make sure all paperwork is completed before waking your child. Make a special breakfast, and help him get dressed. Spend the car trip again making sure your child stays calm. Remind him of all the activities he will do, and tell him what time you will be there to pick him up.

At the center, walk with your child to the room to say hello to the teacher. Give your child a very quick kiss and hug, and most importantly, promptly leave the room without prolonging the goodbye for any reason. Make sure you are there to pick him up at the time you told him. At home that night, celebrate the first day. Make his favorite dinner, or give him a special treat.

These suggestions will go a long way to making sure the first day of child care is painless for everyone involved.

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